{"id":173771,"date":"2026-05-11T16:05:29","date_gmt":"2026-05-11T14:05:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/?p=173771"},"modified":"2026-05-11T16:05:29","modified_gmt":"2026-05-11T14:05:29","slug":"aider-enfant-recentrer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/aider-enfant-recentrer\/","title":{"rendered":"How can you help your child refocus after an intense day?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><div data-parent=\"true\" class=\"vc_row row-container\" id=\"row-unique-0\"><div class=\"row limit-width row-parent\"><div class=\"wpb_row row-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_column pos-top pos-center align_left column_parent col-lg-2 single-internal-gutter\"><div class=\"uncol style-light\"  ><div class=\"uncoltable\"><div class=\"uncell no-block-padding\" ><div class=\"uncont\" ><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column pos-top pos-center align_left column_parent col-lg-8 single-internal-gutter\"><div class=\"uncol style-light\"  ><div class=\"uncoltable\"><div class=\"uncell no-block-padding\" ><div class=\"uncont\" ><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>Does your child come home from school agitated, irritable or completely exhausted? Does he or she explode at the drop of a hat, refuse to talk or seem unable to stop? After a day rich in stimulation, many children need a transition time to release the pressure and regain their emotional balance. Noise, concentration, social interaction, rules to be respected, contained emotions... their brains and bodies have been very much in demand. The good news is that there's no need to set up complicated routines to help them. A few simple gestures, a reassuring environment and adapted activities can really make a difference.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"empty-space empty-single\" ><span class=\"empty-space-inner\"><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h2 class=\"h4\" ><span>Why do children find it hard to \u00abcome down\u00bb?<\/span><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h3 class=\"h6\" ><span>An accumulation of stimuli and emotions<\/span><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>Paying attention, managing emotions, respecting rules, interacting with others and constantly adapting to one's environment all require a great deal of energy. According to UNICEF, childhood is a particularly sensitive period for emotional stress and overload. Children are still developing their ability to manage their thoughts and emotions. Some specialists refer to this as \u00abrestrain collapse\u00bb. They refer to a phenomenon observed when children \u201chold on all day\u201d, then suddenly release the pressure once they've returned to their safe space. In other words: in the evening, your child doesn't behave \u201cless well\u201d. He simply feels safe enough to let out what he's been holding in all day.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"vc_row style-color-136710-bg vc_custom_1778492186028 row-internal row-container\" style=\"padding-top: 20px ;padding-right: 20px ;padding-bottom: 20px ;padding-left: 20px ;\"><div class=\"row row-child\"><div class=\"wpb_row row-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_column pos-top pos-center align_left column_child col-lg-12 single-internal-gutter\"><div class=\"uncol style-light\" ><div class=\"uncoltable\"><div class=\"uncell no-block-padding\" ><div class=\"uncont\" ><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>\ud83d\udca1If, as an adult, you've been required to attend an all-day training course, you've probably come home tired from the effort of concentration, the obligation to remain seated, to follow group rules... Then you've experienced what children feel. The difference? They don't yet have the skills to deal with it properly.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h3 class=\"h6\" ><span>Different reactions for different children<\/span><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>Not all children decompress in the same way. Some become very agitated, irritable, noisy and constantly seek opposition. Others tend to cry easily, close up, need solitude, and seem exhausted without being able to calm down. UNICEF reminds us that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.unicef.org\/eca\/how-recognize-signs-distress-children\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">events<\/a> stress in children can vary greatly according to age, personality and emotional experience.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"empty-space empty-single\" ><span class=\"empty-space-inner\"><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h2 class=\"h4\" ><span>Signs that a child needs to refocus<\/span><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h3 class=\"h6\" ><span>The most frequent behaviours<\/span><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>A child who needs to decompress can :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>get angry quickly; ;<\/li>\n<li>refuse simple requests ;<\/li>\n<li>becoming hypersensitive; ;<\/li>\n<li>overexcited\u201c; ;<\/li>\n<li>difficulty concentrating ;<\/li>\n<li>demand a lot of attention; ;<\/li>\n<li>or, on the contrary, want to isolate themselves.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Sometimes, what looks like provocation is simply a sign of emotional saturation. Understanding this often allows us to change the way we look at these difficult moments.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h3 class=\"h6\" ><span>Why going home is a key moment<\/span><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>The transition between school and home plays an essential role. For many children, there is no real \u201clock\u201d between the two. The schoolbag is put down, and then everything follows: homework, bath, meal and instructions. And yet, the brain needs a transition time to move from a highly stimulating environment to a more soothing one. A few minutes' peace and quiet can save a lot of tension.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"uncode-single-media  text-left\"><div class=\"single-wrapper\" style=\"max-width: 100%;\"><div class=\"tmb tmb-light  tmb-media-first tmb-media-last tmb-content-overlay tmb-no-bg\"><div class=\"t-inside\"><div class=\"t-entry-visual\"><div class=\"t-entry-visual-tc\"><div class=\"uncode-single-media-wrapper\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-173776\" src=\"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/ecole-scaled.webp\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1629\" alt=\"children sitting at school\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/ecole-scaled.webp 2560w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/ecole-300x191.webp 300w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/ecole-1024x652.webp 1024w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/ecole-768x489.webp 768w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/ecole-1536x977.webp 1536w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/ecole-2048x1303.webp 2048w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/ecole-18x12.webp 18w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/ecole-350x223.webp 350w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/ecole-600x382.webp 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"empty-space empty-single\" ><span class=\"empty-space-inner\"><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h2 class=\"h4\" ><span>Five simple rituals to help your child decompress<\/span><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h3 class=\"h6\" ><span>After-school quiet time<\/span><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>As soon as you get home, try slowing down for a few minutes:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>offer a quiet snack; ;<\/li>\n<li>play soft music ;<\/li>\n<li>avoid immediate questions (\u201cHow was your day?\u201d); ;<\/li>\n<li>limit stress.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Some children need to talk right away. Others prefer to calm down before recounting their day. Observing how they work helps a lot.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"vc_row style-color-136710-bg vc_custom_1778492186028 row-internal row-container\" style=\"padding-top: 20px ;padding-right: 20px ;padding-bottom: 20px ;padding-left: 20px ;\"><div class=\"row row-child\"><div class=\"wpb_row row-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_column pos-top pos-center align_left column_child col-lg-12 single-internal-gutter\"><div class=\"uncol style-light\" ><div class=\"uncoltable\"><div class=\"uncell no-block-padding\" ><div class=\"uncont\" ><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>\ud83d\udca1Children need to \u00abdigest\u00bb their day. So it's best to avoid sending him to spend his quiet time in front of the TV \u00abingesting\u00bb ever more information and solicitations.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h3 class=\"h6\" ><span>Propose a creative activity with no objective<\/span><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>Creative activities are particularly effective in helping children release tension. Drawing, coloring, manipulating clay, inventing characters or putting on make-up allow children to express what they don't always know how to verbalize. The brain gradually leaves \u201ccontrol\u201d mode and returns to play, imagination and sensory pleasure. Visit <a href=\"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/manifest\/\">creative make-up<\/a> can become a veritable ritual of transition:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>turn into <a href=\"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/make-up-tutorial-2\/fairy\/tuto-maquillage-chouette\/\">calm animal<\/a> ;<\/li>\n<li>invent a protective character ;<\/li>\n<li>play with <a href=\"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/artistic-exploration-mondrians-new-york-city-1942\/\">colors<\/a> ;<\/li>\n<li>create a story together.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Here, it's not a question of aesthetics, but of expression and creativity.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h3 class=\"h6\" ><span>Using the body to release tension<\/span><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>Refocusing also involves the body. After a day of sitting and concentrating, some children need to move around to release accumulated tension. Simple activities help the nervous system to return to a calmer state: free dancing, stretching, motor skills, playful breathing, a hot bath, hand or back massage....<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h3 class=\"h6\" ><span>Respect your need for silence or solitude<\/span><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>Some children need a few minutes alone when they get home. This need is particularly prevalent among children who are introverted, hypersensitive or very socially solicited during the day. Respecting this time without taking it personally can really help them to regain their balance more quickly.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h3 class=\"h6\" ><span>Establish a reassuring ritual<\/span><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>Rituals are very reassuring for children. They allow the brain to hear and understand: \u00abthe day is over, you can relax.\u00bb It doesn't have to be long or perfect. Regularity is more important than performance.<\/p>\n<p>It can be :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>a story ;<\/li>\n<li>drawing of the day; ;<\/li>\n<li>a few minutes of symbolic play; ;<\/li>\n<li>a moment of creative make-up; ;<\/li>\n<li>a breath together before the meal.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\n<\/div><div class=\"vc_row style-color-136710-bg vc_custom_1778492186028 row-internal row-container\" style=\"padding-top: 20px ;padding-right: 20px ;padding-bottom: 20px ;padding-left: 20px ;\"><div class=\"row row-child\"><div class=\"wpb_row row-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_column pos-top pos-center align_left column_child col-lg-12 single-internal-gutter\"><div class=\"uncol style-light\" ><div class=\"uncoltable\"><div class=\"uncell no-block-padding\" ><div class=\"uncont\" ><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>\ud83d\udca1You can use this other article to get your ideas for <a href=\"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/idees-activite-en-famille-un-dimanche-pluvieux\/\">rituals<\/a> with the family.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"empty-space empty-single\" ><span class=\"empty-space-inner\"><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h2 class=\"h4\" ><span>Why do creative activities soothe children?<\/span><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h3 class=\"h6\" ><span>Create to better regulate your emotions<\/span><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>Creating helps children to channel their attention, slow down and express their emotions indirectly. When he draws, paints or imagines a character, his brain mobilizes areas linked to creativity, exploration and pleasure. This gradually promotes a return to calm. Creative play also offers children an important feeling: that of regaining control in a world they have mastered.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"vc_custom_heading_wrap\"><div class=\"heading-text el-text\" ><h3 class=\"h6\" ><span>Make-up as an emotional transition game<\/span><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>Transforming oneself into a butterfly, a tiger or an imaginary creature may seem harmless... but these games have a real emotional function. They enable children to :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>symbolically change state; ;<\/li>\n<li>explore different emotions; ;<\/li>\n<li>to move from the world of school to the world of imagination; ;<\/li>\n<li>to share a moment of complicity with their parents.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And sometimes a few colors, a paintbrush and a little imagination are all it takes to completely transform the mood at the end of the day.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"uncode-single-media  text-left\"><div class=\"single-wrapper\" style=\"max-width: 100%;\"><div class=\"tmb tmb-light  tmb-media-first tmb-media-last tmb-content-overlay tmb-no-bg\"><div class=\"t-inside\"><div class=\"t-entry-visual\"><div class=\"t-entry-visual-tc\"><div class=\"uncode-single-media-wrapper\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-173778\" src=\"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/papillon-scaled.webp\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1629\" alt=\"children&#039;s butterfly make-up\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/papillon-scaled.webp 2560w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/papillon-300x191.webp 300w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/papillon-1024x652.webp 1024w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/papillon-768x489.webp 768w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/papillon-1536x977.webp 1536w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/papillon-2048x1303.webp 2048w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/papillon-18x12.webp 18w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/papillon-350x223.webp 350w, https:\/\/namaki.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/papillon-600x382.webp 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"vc_row style-color-136710-bg vc_custom_1778492186028 row-internal row-container\" style=\"padding-top: 20px ;padding-right: 20px ;padding-bottom: 20px ;padding-left: 20px ;\"><div class=\"row row-child\"><div class=\"wpb_row row-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_column pos-top pos-center align_left column_child col-lg-12 single-internal-gutter\"><div class=\"uncol style-light\" ><div class=\"uncoltable\"><div class=\"uncell no-block-padding\" ><div class=\"uncont\" ><div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>\ud83d\udc49 You may also be interested in this article: <a href=\"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/maquillage-confiance-enfant\/\">Children's make-up and self-confidence: more than a game, a key to growing up well <\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"empty-space empty-single\" ><span class=\"empty-space-inner\"><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"uncode_text_column\" ><p>No child can stay calm, focused and emotionally available all day long. The need to decompress is normal. The aim is not to avoid every crisis or every emotion, but to gradually help the child regain his balance after an intense day. With a little listening, a few simple rituals and some creative space, these sometimes difficult moments can become real times of reconnection. Because when it comes down to it, what children need most to center themselves... is often to feel welcomed just as they are.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column pos-top pos-center align_left column_parent col-lg-2 single-internal-gutter\"><div class=\"uncol style-light\"  ><div class=\"uncoltable\"><div class=\"uncell no-block-padding\" ><div class=\"uncont\" ><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><script id=\"script-row-unique-0\" data-row=\"script-row-unique-0\" type=\"text\/javascript\" class=\"vc_controls\">UNCODE.initRow(document.getElementById(\"row-unique-0\"));<\/script><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Votre enfant rentre de l\u2019\u00e9cole agit\u00e9, irritable ou compl\u00e8tement \u00e9puis\u00e9 ? Il explose pour \u201cun rien\u201d, refuse de parler ou [...]","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":173775,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"content-type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[337],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-173771","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-education"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/173771","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=173771"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/173771\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":173779,"href":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/173771\/revisions\/173779"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/173775"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=173771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=173771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/namaki.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=173771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}